Your desire is sacred.
Amsterdomme supports women, couples, and curious people in reclaiming their desires and writing new stories around sex, intimacy, and power.
Whether you're:
Stepping into non-monogamy
Rebuilding your erotic connection for more pleasure
Wanting to be a Goddess or serve one
Healing from past shame or conditioning - you don’t have to do it alone.
Amsterdomme offers bespoke sex and intimacy coaching with a trauma-informed, kink-aware approach—infused with love, style, and deep care.
If something inside you is stirring, trust it. This is your invitation to explore, expand, and come home to yourself.
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Learn more About the Goddess Life
You deserve wonderful, rewarding relationships with partners who want to meet your every need, from cleaning your home, to spoiling you with enchanting dates, and, of course, to offering sexual pleasure and gratification. Since 2011, Amsterdomme has lived as a Goddess. Is this your desire too?
The Goddess Life: Six Week Course
01 — Identifying your own desires
Safely explore the roots of what you want and why. Which types of Goddess / Mistress play are the most fun and sexy for you? Where do these feelings originate from?
02 — Creating your boundaries
Learn to verbalize your needs and desires. Which types of play do you not want to engage in? Learn how to communicate your boundaries to your partners.
03 — Building confidence
Together we will practice asking for what you want and need and getting it!
04 — The art of negotiation
Goddess / boy toy play should be a win / win for both parties. You can create a checklist for your negotiation and creating safe, fun scenes and sessions.
05 — Learning active listening
Being a great Domme means knowing your partners’ boundaries and desires and honoring them.
06 — Flourishing
Celebrating and flourishing in your sexy Goddess identity. Yassss! Welcome to your Goddess Life!
Amsterdomme University’s Goddess Life Coaching includes tools for developing yourself as a Goddess: worksheets, journaling, & safety practices.
*For those interested in growing in attracting money in this role, we will deep dive into pricing, marketing, and negotiating with customers.! References from people I mentor are available upon request.
The Goddess Initiation
Perfect for those curious about working with me or who need short-term clarity and support.
What’s included:
3 private 60-minute coaching sessions (1 per week)
Personalized guidance on sex, dating, and intimacy challenges
Homework & practices tailored to your desires and goals
Focus: self-discovery, confidence, clarity, and consent
✨ Ideal for clients starting a new chapter—like opening up a relationship, exploring kink, or reclaiming their erotic identity.